Wednesday 26 November 2014

The Good, the Bad & the Ugly

To let you in on the characters of Occa and Belle a little more I decided to dedicate a post to each dog outlining their Good, Bad and downright Ugly (there is always something isn't there?)

Today I want to talk about our youngest; Belle.


honestly, butter wouldn't melt in her mouth
Both our dogs are rescue dogs, however we adopted Belle when she was a bit over three months old and had already gone through what is known as the 'imprinting stage' (between 8 - 12 weeks) that is prime time for socialisation. She was also in a shelter from very young and I don't believe she ever made it into a foster home for socialisation. This is not the fault of the shelter at all, and definitely not wholly responsible for some of the issues that Belle has.

It was always clear to us that Belle had anxiety (the ugly). She has always struggled with new experiences (for example walking through new doorways is always an exercise that requires patience and understanding as it takes minutes..), deep voices, loud sounds (vaccuum cleaner, food processor etc), open stairs or bridges and of course her big one; new dogs in her face. With most of these issues she exhibits her anxiety in a standard fashion; she runs away, hides or cowers, but when dogs get in her face she expresses her anxiety and fear through aggression. Belle is not an aggressive dog by any stretch of the imagination, if you met her you would understand, and when she goes into her anxiety attacks around other dogs she never makes contact; she's all bark and no bite. But these episodes completely knock her around and she turns into a mess for a few days afterwards. To give some more context, Belle only acts like this when she isn't given the time and space to meet a new dog on her terms. She loves to meet new friends, but the introductions must be slow, polite and have boundaries.

Pyschologically, this makes complete sense! How would you like it if someone ran up to you and starting yelling and laughing in your face within mere moments of meeting them. You'd probably yell back or run away. To help Belle with this particular issue we've done a lot of research and got the assistance of The Canine Coach to write a special training program for Belle that 'counter conditions' her to have a positive experience everytime she sees or meets another dog. We also use Bach's Flower Essence on particularly sensitive days, and have adopted a very zen approach to life so there is no yelling or excessive anxiety at home. She is going beautifully and hasn't had a full blown attack in months. The basic structure of counter conditioning is marking and rewarding Belle at the moment she starts to feel her anxiety in an attempt to change her mentality from seeing a dog being something which causes anxiety and fear to a positive experience, as it means she is receiving treats and lots of praise (and generally having a good time).

That being said, this isn't a problem that will go away. She will always have this mentality and urge to protect her personal space. It requires constant management from us to ensure that every adventure out of the house is a 100% positive one for her. We do this through never leaving the house without a treat bag and vigilant eyes. Of course we still have some bad days, but we just take those as they come and remember that everyone has bad days and life is a continually evolving process.
 
 

super relaxed in her zen household..


Belle also has a small issue (the bad) of herding dogs when out on an oval. Something which comes from her farm roots and something we haven't spent a lot of training time on because she has only recently been allowed off lead around other dogs. We do not let her off lead in dog heavy situations, and try to take her to places that are closed in and gently ask people to let us be if they wander by but sometimes it will occur that a dog will virtually come out of nowhere and off she is... zooming for them. She usually just chases them and pulls up last minute and then runs off again, which you wouldn't think would be a problem, but can you imagine someone sprinting at you (Belle is lightening fast) with now idea why they are chasing you.. what would your reaction be? Probably terror. Which is what we are afraid of. Through this behaviour she is putting herself in dangerous situations around unknown dogs (ironic given her anxiety) with no way for us to control her. So far nothing too bad has happened, most dogs are pretty good about it and either wander away before she gets to them or just say hello when she arrives. However, we're about to embark on a new training technique to help give us some control over her behaviour. We are planning on getting a long lead and normal/dog whistle to break her concentration when she goes into her torpedo mode. We're hoping the whistle will work and she'll be able to respond once her concentration is broken, but if not the long lead is a built-in added protection. We'll keep you posted.

Belle is an absolute teddy bear of a dog (the good/great/excellent!) and in life literally only wants to be loved. She will never turn away a cuddle and is amazingly atune to human emotion. She is also a keen learner. She longs to please us and picks up on any form of training within a couple of repetitions. She is the dog we plan to take through agility training, and is always the show and tell dog in class.. it is hard not to be a proud puppy parent.


during her first days at home..

Belle is also the more mature and subdued dog of the two - she will generally wait before leaping out of a vehicle, or dashing across a road, is quiet as a mouse and will choose to sleep in a quiet spot whenever we visit family or friends. She loves humans and will happily snuggle with anyone she meets and isn't remotely fazed by the weird stuff that small children (or even full grown adults!) do. She generally endears herself to everybody. We have had many people attempt to steal her (not literally) or keep her for just a little while.. everyone she meets falls head over heels.

She is also an ace exercise buddy; not only is she super fast, but she picks up on the nuances of your pace, where she should run when you are running or even cycling and is happy to just cruise at whatever speed is neccessary.





 
happy exercising on the beach
Belle is a special creature whom we adore unequivocally, who despite the bad and the ugly we would never change for the world. She is who she is and with a little extra guidance and support she is a fantastic family member. She is loyal to the bone and will always  be around for a cuddle when required.
 
 
 
 
gotta a lot of love to give
 
 

Power Booster

 
Does your dog have something that is always guaranteed to put an extra spring in their step?
 
Occa loves puddles. We affectionately call him a hippo, or the Blue Whale.
 
And without a doubt if there is a puddle up ahead he will race towards it at full pelt... then after running through it, getting the water through his paws and usually all over my legs, he positively skips with glee for the next few metres.
 
It reminds me of the power booster pads on Mario Cart.. His own personal power booster in real life...
 
 

Tuesday 18 November 2014

Reactions..

Have you ever reacted to a situation that you later regretted and knew you could have handled better?

The other day I was taking a nap on the couch, all snuggled with the fur-babies, when all of a sudden barking rang throughout the house and the two pups were at the door going a little crazy.. unfortunately in my sleepy haze my reaction was to start yelling and carrying on. As you can guess this only served to make things worse.. with me yelling Occa got more agitated and started barking and howling even more, and Belle well she just ran around the house a little confused and terrified.

Turns out there was a dog in the front yard. Totally reasonable for the dogs to alert me to this fact. There was someone on their land - how dare they?!

I meanwhile sat there kicking myself for escalating the situation past boiling point and setting the dogs excitement off the radar...

Later that very day, a delivery truck arrived. I thought right, this is my chance to get it right for the day. So true to form the dogs alerted me to the fact someone was at the door - I said "okay, let me check." Upon seeing who was there I told the dogs that all was fine and to "settle", then whilst I opened the door I asked them to "wait". Perfect behaviour was exhibited! They both instantly stopped their reactions once I showed that I was going to investigate the situation, and upon asking them to settle they chilled out and were calm enough to follow my other instructions.

It showed me that if I can just remember all the hard work and training we have put into the dogs over the past four years and trust them, then everything operates like a well oiled machine. They have their place (alert) and I have mine (investigate). Once we operate together and understand each other everyone is happy.

Have you ever had a situation where you've forgotten your training methods and lost control of the situation?

Forever love your dog,
Emma

Wednesday 5 November 2014

Sydney Weekend - c'mon let's go!

Hello all. I am back! Thank you for being so patient whilst I was off planning our wedding and apologies I've been off the grid for as long as I have.
 
However, with the wedding behind us and life as a family before us, it is time to get back into the important business of documenting our lives as dog parents.
 
I was in Sydney on the weekend to see Sculptures by the Sea and was delighted to stumble across what looked like a puppy pool party. In actual fact it was many savvy dog parents taking their pups for a dip at Mackenzies Bay, the rocky outcrop between Bondi and Bronte Beaches.
It was a delightful scene to watch, and of course me being me insisted on stopping to admire for a while.
 
 
 
It was a 34 degree Celsius day, not a cloud in the sky. The ocean was bringing in a steady stream of waves, but not so large or fierce to overwhelm and on an unassuming rock ledge were at least 15 dogs and their owners enjoying a dip and even sunbake. Most were off - lead and enjoying the social aspect of the day also. My favorite pup was a black lab chasing his ball as it was rocked around a pool by the waves. There were also surfer dogs who jumped into the waves and swam their way back to the shore.
 
The excited lab chasing his ball..
 
Once a dip was had these pups were content to wander back to their parents who were enjoying the spectacle from the warm rocks.. Some looked settled in for the long haul, others just passed through for a cool day. All came back up with a rapidly wagging tail and huge goofy smile.
 
Bliss.
 
 
Unfortunately I hadn't taken our pups to Sydney that day. But if we are planning another trip over the spring/summer, Mackenzies Bay will definitely be on our list to check out.
 
Forever love your dog,
Emma